5
Ways To Win My Heart
Before we jump right into the topic, I would like to take
a moment here to clarify that all the ideas listed below are mine. I have my
personal standards as well as my turn ons and turn offs. Judging is fine but
not necessary, okay? So don’t make a big deal about it!
1.
Smart
Dress
It is not about wear a suit every time. I just really
hate it when someone wears flip-flops (with or without socks) and does not even
bother tucking his shirt. It looks so sloppy. Since I used to work in fashion,
I do care about my own style. It is just my opinion but someone who has his own
style could possibly win my heart. I am not attracted to guys nor girls who
wear whatever they grab first from their wardrobe.
In school or at workplace, wearing one’s ID tag is a
plus. I know that many people do not like to do this even though it cost literally
nothing. Wearing a full uniform is also a plus to me. I have been observing
many people omit some accessories from their basic uniform just because they
are lazy. If your uniform requires a bow tie, then wear it. I know it is very
hot outside but it is your responsibility when you put on that uniform. I may
be a little too strict about this but to be honest, it bothers me a lot ever
since high school.
On a date with me, please button up your shirt properly
if you intend to wear one. Leaving more than two buttons unbuttoned makes you
look like an idiot, except when you are a girl, then it would look sexy.
2.
Feed
me
Let’s take a serious moment here. I am actually the type
of person who lives to eat. I had selective eating disorder in the past. Up
until now, I am not fully recovered. I am not saying that I only eat specific
type of food. I just avoid specific type of food.
I do not like to eat fruit. Parsley is not my favorite. I
love eating raw fish and traditional Japanese dishes. I can live without red
meat. I would love to go vegan but again, I cannot live without dairy products.
I have a sweet tooth. I do not eat much and when I feel full, no one can force
me to eat more. After all, I am no competitive eater anyway.
I do not like pizza. Yes, I do aware the fact that this
would make me a non-girlfriend material. That is fine by me. Going on date with
me would be a little overwhelming at first because we have to figure out where
we both want to eat. I love fine dining. I do not want to waste money on a cup
of lemon tea just to be seated on the pavement. That is idiotic.
Expensive restaurants and fast food stalls are not really
my type. Although they are still acceptable at some points, I still prefer
going to unknown special small café where we can go explore together.
3.
Gift
Giving
This is clearly not about buying me present. It is about
compromising. I give you a gift that I think is suitable for you. You do the
same thing for me. It does not need an occasion to give gifts to each other. Gifts
can be purchased or made with love.
Gift giving on special occasions is not require in order
to date me. I do not give gift to exchange for some love. I give gift because I
care about my partner and I want my partner to feel loved. On special
occasions, a gift for my special one is the perfect excuse to show him or her
how grateful I am to have such special someone in my life.
A gift might be something abstract. It could be something
that you may not perceive with your five senses. A song, a lullaby, a poem or
even a story written with love is the most marvelous gift in the world.
Do not take gift giving too seriously because it might
ruin the beautiful meaning beneath. It is totally fine if you do not want to.
However, do not make it such a big deal when I want to give you something. It
is okay that only one of us doing the gift giving thing.
4.
Share
your emotions and feelings
Neither of us can read each other’s mind. I am the type
of emotional girl but at the same time, I am a little anti-social. It means
that I do not easily share my true emotions and feelings. I only share it with
someone whom I trust enough.
In my world, I am a total different person from whom
people see every day. My appearance has nothing to do with my personality but
don’t be confused, I am not really that complicated. I am willing to share
everything and I would keep going on and on about it later. I do not want to
keep my feelings to myself.
If I can do that, then it is your turn to do the same. I
do not know you yet but I am always willing to listen to you. I am a good
listener and a great secret keeper. It is safe to share your emotions and
feelings with me. I want to get to know you better through listening to you.
Whatever you want to say, just tell me all about it. I will be doing the same
thing.
5.
Love
me with your actions
I am tired of words. As an amateur writer, I have been
working with words and phrases all the time. In reality, I do aware that action
speaks louder than words. So, whatever you want to do, put it into actions
since words do not really mean anything to me.
It is true that sometimes, words help us to get through
difficult times. However, most of the time, we use actions to get over
ourselves. Telling me sweet words is nothing different than talking to the
wall. I am sorry that I do not really fall for those words. Mostly, I fall for
actions. But then again, only actions may not work. It is best to work your way
through both actions and words.
I may not need those sayings tell me that I am being loved.
I would rather appreciate a goodbye kiss on my forehead than some meaningless
words on my messenger. Letting me grab your hands while walking on some steps
with my high heels is much better than constantly talking about how gorgeous I look.
Girls fall for sweet talks. I fall for a warm hand holding mine.
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